There are a lot lot lot of things I want to write about my wedding. 2013 has been a chaotic and busiest year of my life I guess. Lotsa times and energy were put for my wedding preparation. Yes, I did almost everything myself. From choosing the halls, caterer up to tiny details like buying linens and bed sheet, and even tissues for the event! Yeah..yeah..I am very particular like that. But at least, I am satisfied with everything I had put through...Alhamdulillah.
Altogether, I have about 3 events which were Nikah, Malam Berinai & Reception. So, there were 3 details I had to think about! Every decision I made costed me. But, wise decisions can make you save money. That is why it was very time consuming to weigh all available options and studied the pros and cons. I understand, as a bride to be, we want everything to be perfect and we want every pieces of things are the quality ones. If you having loads of money and sponsors, it shouldn't be a problem. But, for a budget bride like me, I had to eliminate things that are not so important and plan accordance to the pennies I have. Financial planning are very crucial in time like this. That was why I started planning early. It really could help and give you ample time to survey for the best. Okay, this really could make an entry for wedding tips. Maybe soon! (I can't really promise hihi). Oh yeah, now I am in the midst of selecting pictures for our wedding album. There are about 4000 pictures to choose from! That is only from 1 photographers. There are 3 more photographers yet to submit theirs as well. Pengsan!!
Many people ask me, how it's like to be married. Well, I always answer "it's too soon to know, I only married for months!". Hahaha. Yes, seriously, I don't know what it's like to be married really. I can't really differentiate. Of course, there are things that cannot be done when I was single can be done now. Do not think other ways okay! Hehehe. What I meant is, now I can going out at until late at night with my now called husband and I never need to worry about curfew anymore. But I do notice, that I've become busier now I'm married. Maybe because instead of thinking for one, now everything that I do, I have to include my husband as well. Also, I have two families now and the responsibility is heavier now. I do enjoying every little things and feel blessed, Alhamdulillah.
Although we've been friends for almost 7 years now, surprisingly there are also many sides of him that I didn't know before. A good surprise they are. I still now adjusting myself with my new life and I'm glad to be blessed with a loving family around me. I'd love to thank them all, family and friends especially for being so helpful in my time of need during my wedding. Until the next entry, bye!
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